As a grandparent, I've navigated the differences between my "tribe's" traditions and those of my adult child's in-laws, particularly regarding holiday and birthday celebrations. I've witnessed the downsides of disagreements over family traditions, which can lead to feelings of exclusion from decisions about gatherings and conflicts over how to celebrate special occasions.

Research indicates that when grandparents are actively involved in co-parenting—sharing responsibilities for childcare and upbringing—the benefits for children often outweigh the challenges.

A recent poll involving around 2,000 households revealed that 40% of parents experience conflicts with grandparents on various topics, including discipline, meal choices, screen time, manners, and health and safety. Concerns arise when grandparents refuse to honor parents' decisions, leading many parents to limit the time grandparents spend with their children as a response.